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Retirement Communities: Unreal World?

Active-Adult retirement communities may beIn the fifties, I remember walking to the
your answer if you are over 55 and lookingmarket for a loaf of bread because it was so
for some quiet time. There is somethingclose--like the village centers in the newer
about living in a retirement community thatcommunities of today. If we forgot
is almost unreal because the rest of thesomething--no worry-- we would just go back.
world is not quite like this--or at least notThe corner drugstore was our entertainment
yet. Inside all is serene. It is a timethen for the cherry cokes and, for a special
warp. In my retirement community I get thetreat, a fifty-cent banana split. Yes, life
same feeling of comfort I had living in thewas simpler then and I guess that is why it
fifties when you didn't lock your door andwas more peaceful. If I wanted a "Starbucks"
you knew all your neighbors. Your neighborsI would go there--its in the "village"
smile and say good morning sometimescenter. The hair salon and barber shop are
reminding me of the old "Mr. Rogersvery popular with seniors keeping their hair
Neighborhood" show. At my community, I goand nails immaculate. If I want to go to the
out for a morning walk or an evening strollmajor mall, there is a shuttle
at any time of the day without fear thatservice.Everything I want is close at hand. I
someone will "mug" me. It is in your mindhave hundreds of activities I could do--a
that there is a manned security gate andswim, a walk, to the library, to the fitness
patrol cars on duty 24 hours a day. Whilecenter, aerobics -- the list goes on and on.
this doesn't guarantee your security, itThey are an easy stroll away. Of course, I
feels good.It's very quiet -- your neighborscan't do them all. I do the ones I want to
are of an adult age that there are no "wild"do the most.Life in a retirement community
parties anymore or loud music at late hours.isn't like life just anywhere--there are huge
No one under 18 is allowed to live here.differences. My life has changed and I like
Not that there is no one under 18 but theythe changes. I used to worry more than I do
are only visiting. Occasionally in thenow. I never seemed to have time for things
summer you hear someone's grandchild but thatI loved but now I do.There are more
is all. It is quiet. This is nice becausecommunities being built with these same
you can think and rest better.Every week acharacteristics, with or without an age
common task for most people is to lift thequalification, such as being able to walk to
laundry basket to the laundry room. Mya nearby shopping area where you see your
laundry room is outside my door in the hallneighbors and access to community
all of 5 steps away. Last week they replacedentertainment nearby such as walking trails,
the laundry machines we had with new ones.pools or restaurants. People seem to like
I thought the old ones looked new. They arethat. If it seems bland, I like bland. It's
cleaned every week. The trash goes down aquiet, friendly, "safe," serene and busy at
chute next to the laundry room. The carpetsthe same time. It's a good way to live and
are vacuumed and if the building needs paint,seniors have lived it before--in the fifties.
it is painted. The landscape is also groomedDoes it seem unreal--the drastic change
once a week. If it snows, the roads arebetween life some 50 years ago and today
shoveled. If it rains, I know the roofmakes the fifties seem unreal even to us
gutters have been cleared. If I go on a tripseniors. I can't imagine how young people
the 24-hour security patrol watches my housetoday can envision such a life like we
and I don't think about it on my trip. I amseniors had in the fifties. Yet I believe
not afraid to occasionally leave my doorthese new communities today, age-qualified or
unlocked or walk to my car. This has freednot, are recycling that feeling--safe,
up a lot of time to do other things.A greatfriendly and making it once again very
feature about my retirement community, andreal--today!There may be an over-55
again reminds me of the fifties is the way weactive-adult retirement community near you.
can walk to the adjacent "village center."



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